What is blood relationship , contract of marriage, what is Divine human relationship and what is Facebook relationship. ?????....,

We are born in this world through a natural process and become the children of parents as related to us  .In a  similar process, our siblings are borne and become related to parents.We become related to our siblings by virtue of being children of same parents or more specifically of same mother and become blood relations...The hierarchy of blood relations get extended through genetic or blood relationships producing legal heirs or coparceners in the universe... linking the ancestors with the descendants...

Brother,sister,mother,father,cousin,uncles, aunts ,etc become blood relations.

One gets married to another person.   Here the relationship prevailing is one caused as a result of legal contract of marriage between a man and a woman.

We come across many persons in the world.  We do not closely observe and feel  the divine qualities or characters of our siblings or Spouse or parents, or our descendants. We  are blessed  in this  world for being in the midst of  certain divine persons  who are not our blood relations..We realise and recognize the said divinity...in  male  or female,on account of  his or her  nature , character, appearance, activities, level of knowledge, attitudes,tolerance,patience ,faith in God, etc.  as perceived by us .We preserve and cherish  them in our minds  and  hearts as God and feel personally associated with them. We wish to remember them,like to see their prosperity and desire for their welfare  .  We feel hurt and unhappy when such individuals are subjected to  any type  agonies in life. We deem  them as Divine and may be we might not have spoken  to or physically  seen such messengers of God.  ..as we donot see  God Almighty in person  or speak directly to God. Of course we can see God in person after developing  faith in Him ,praying Him always with devotion  and realizing his greatness and submitting to Him for attaining Moksha...

Now a group of persons of various interests become our friends in Facebook..we see them through profiles, read their writings, see their family, events ,etc but would somehow feel  them as unrelated social  net work friends.  Many of them would not have seen us in person  and  vice versa .We get option to block or unfriend any of them anytime .

May be there will be other definitions for friendships and relationships But it is absolutely certain that human beings need friends and relations of categories mentioned by me for existence...

Unknown we meet many but known got  mingled  and  live to  depart known to meet again...  with a wish to be born as same siblings,parents,children, descendants, etc....

Bad taste in mouth...temporary.....

This is what I get  to know from website...

A bad taste in the mouth can be a result of a wide range of medical conditions and even everyday situations. Many different kinds of prescription or over-the-counter medications can interfere with the sense of taste and may produce an unpleasant sensation of taste. The feeling of a bad taste in the mouth is usually temporary and improves when the underlying cause is remedied. Consumption of certain foods, or the use of tobacco products, can result in an unpleasant or bad taste in the mouth. Poor dental health and poor hygiene are other potential causes of a bad taste in the mouth.

I am a teetotaller and donot use tobacco products and hence cause from that is ruled out ...

This is a problem....I went to  my Physician ... On 24:12:2015..with slight headache...and bad taste in tongue... He gave a dose of Paracetamol, Ornidazole,some ampicillin or Anti allergy tablets. I became all right .

Incidentally I recollect having taken Nimesulide tablets for some pains  few days back from Drug store  at Tiruchirapalli.That may be the cause for my condition .

Now last week I got same problems...took same dose of antibiotics, etc...feeling better.

It is possible intake of medicines including Aspirin daily without taking vitamin tabs and Calcium tabs may be the reason. Ofcourse other remedial measures like taking butter milk with salt or lassi also appears OK Although we are required to take Calcium tablets daily, it was discontinued and am taking Calcium tablets  from yesterday Also take vendhayam or uluva in Malayalam or Fenugreek Seeds crushed  in water fully dissolved taken may reduce the problem.
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Fenugreek seeds are used in colic flatulencee, dysentery, diarrhoea, dyspepsia, chronic cough, enlargement of liver and spleen, rickets, gout and diabetes, Also used as carminative, tonic and aphrodisiac.""

No doubt regular brushing teeth with salt rich toothpaste and using mouthwash and tongue cleaner etc also help reduce the temporary problem.

One thing I note is  when you take fruits with sugar content or coffee with flavour and  chicory , the feeling is much reduced.

This must be a regular occurrence for many .I think some Homeopathic drugs may do better.

As a layman I read somewhere it may be due to bacterial infection on tongue. How to find out these bacteria ...?

We have to face all these try to know the cause and remedy...What else to do,???

My ancestors....discovery....

  I tried to find  out names of some ancestors..including the original person...may be Easwaran As I know my father',S parents moved to Ernakulam and hence not familiar with Palakkad  .From dayadhi side Dr T.V.Sundareswaran ...of Thondikulam gramam... His wife Visalam. my wife BRINDHALAKSHMI's Athai.... His  elder sisters were two...   One was Lakshmi...may be eldest was  .. Muthu or Muthulakshmi. Muthulakshmi's...descendants ....two sons and two daughters.... . one  son   by name Raman or Ramu is heard.Other brother's name as well as  their children, grandchildren if any are  not known... as we were  not in Palakkad or Thondikulam. Villages. . She had two daughters Pappathi and Akkadi..... Anybody connected with this family  knowing names  may contact me @vijayaraghavanp1@gmail. com. and furnish any information as our grandchildren want to know all in the family and are in the process of constructing  a family tree. 

We belong to Thondikulam village or Gramam with very. few houses there....Thondikulam and Nurani villages are interconnected and Sasthapreethi is celebrated there every year..My mother. Annapoorni.. is from Nurani village married at age of 10...daughter of Seshan .Even many details of her brothers,sisters ...not known..Please furnish if known..

How do you share sufferings of others???

Life is an opportunity provided to human
beings by Almighty to live...it is the phenomenon occurring as a result of the karma of two individuals..a man and a woman ...destined to live together by the divine will of God Almighty.The said individuals become the human beings instrumental in performing the acts of human  survival in this materialistic world.Everything appears a myth or part of maaya  while delineating the  period of existence through mathematical analysis. Life  is short..but  human deeds and needs   remain extending from zero to infinity during one’s purposeful existence.Realisation of the necessities ,sharing the suffering  of others and involving in the process of peaceful co  existence make life purposeful .  Life  is a  period of time  containing an immiscible mixture of joy and sufferings culminating in one completing the journey  attaining satisfaction or moksha. The theory of rebirth after one’s death would prove the truth that for the good or bad deeds during  your present  existence    will be  subjected to a divine judicial review  on your death  and  you will be allowed to be born again for correcting your errors in previous janma or  realizing  benefits for good action or work in your previous birth.

Basic nature of all human beings are same as the physiological components,mental acumen,longevity in human existence,periods in life such as child, student ,bachelor, married person, parent,grandparent, etc The qualities you possess are  derived either from the genes of your ancestors  or others who have taken care to see children grow well utilise all opportunities in life by getting educated,employed loving the humans and being contented with whatever possessed and complimented by the performance of duties by the children.  A random view of  our contemporaries of humans living with us   convince us the truthful nature of human existence being common to all .

In the process of life one gets married to a person to form a family to take care of both and the progeny  which came as our desire to continue the family  for generations.. The cycle continues further in expansion of family with more humans coming to the world enjoying the natural opportunities available and allowing the members of family lead a peaceful life.

No doubt on account of various reasons all members of a family do not possess same academic levels ,economic freedom etc still the love and affection among the children and siblings continue for ever.

In the event of marriage ,the new chapter begins in life by merger of  two persons being a male and a female. Of Course, mistakes can be committed by anybody. Also sickness can happen to any .But apparently such trivial  matters lead to separation of married life in some cases.Although marriage is just a contract in law, the  cessation  of relation between the couple or wife and spouse  in divorce doesnot annul the relation between a wife and  her husband... One male  is made for another  female companion  by God and no law can separate them.May be in countries like Vatican City or the Philippines the provision for legal separation through divorce is not provided in their constitution or jurisprudence.In India such an important constitutional amendment is yet to materialize...

When I come across sufferings of people on account of health problems or separation from spouse,etc.   it affects my thinking system or mind. Being a human I just imagine the agonies faced by individuals   and their parents ,siblings and the kith and kin forming family .Such eventualities lead to disturbance and loss of peace  of mind among all members of joint families Also mutual disbelief and acrimony result among members of families leading to catastrophic human existence. As an ordinary peace loving human being  ,I  am reminded of  such human agonies  daily .May be if I approach a Physician for my   condition or phobia , he may give me some pills  and if I enquire further  will  direct me to approach  a Psychiatrist.But I realise the situation and try to get the solution within.. Of course,despite my desire to help any affected,the individual characters of the concerned individuals do not allow for finding a solution along with the circumstances prevailing,I think it must be a human nature just to feel unhappy and sympathise  with others  noting them undergoing agonies  in life for no fault of his or her.

Just as I pray God for all good daily,I add my plea in my plaint submitted before God  for  early resolution of problems faced by individuals  acquainted with me through contacts and all others .

Hope that humanity lives happily taking care of others and one's own life partners,children,etc.

Again,I pray for happy life to all .......

I was a classmate of my son Rajesh.

I have heard son and and father  appearing together for SSLC ,son passing the exam….and father failing again….

Here it was a case of me and son Rajesh Parameswaran studying Hindi together and writing exam in same hall and passing together  in First Class.

I had desire to learn Hindi in Hindi Class for exams conducted by Dakshin Bharath Hindi Prachar sabha.I joined Guru Hindi Sikshan Mandir Guttahalli,Bangalore in 1961 when I was in standard 9..I had my friends and classmates like Vinoda,Kalpana,Rukmani,Sridhar, Chandrasekhar, Niranjan Balakrishnan etc Rukmani was my neighbor older than me by 10 years and others similar age .We enjoyed Hindi Class in the evening ...I used to draw an electric wire  from classroom of Government School ,Guttahalli to a Lady Doctor”S house to get temporary electric connection for class from  6 P M  to 8 PM.  We had Gadhyakusum,Kavyakusum,Assi dhin me dhuniya ki sair,Grammar,etc My teachers were Gururaja Rao,Viswanath,Prasanna,Murali,Premsingh etc.I used to be caretaker for Rukku to take her back home after class was over We were staying near the Hindi Class .It was  an easy subject...I passed Prathamic,Madhyama and Rashtrabhasha..all first class. In Madhyama I got state First Rank for Karnataka and in some function got the prize from some Chief Minister. I forget his name. Later  I stopped attending  Hindi Class after joining college in 1963…

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It was later in 1993 when I was working in Tiruchirapalli I started attending Hindi Class in morning at Mahatma Gandhi Vidyalaya, near Tennur...We were staying in Thillainagar and it was my walk time to go to Hindi Class. and got my son Rajesh also enrolled as external student.I appeared for Praveshika and Rajesh also was behind me in the exam hall. Both of us wrote  exams in same hall.. near Urayur, got First class..Later as I went to USA  on holidays did not  continue.

But Rajesh's mother used to say ...you must have got first-class in Praveshika by copying Rajesh’s answer papers or he might have written the exam for you. I could not say anything....as I had to defend both....

Later he completed Visharad or something,Chitra was learning Hindi ..told me once she completed Madhyama.

See how both of us studied together,I used to attend classes  he used to read books and guides   I got him . and write,..both appeared for same exams...and got same marks....