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Sunday, January 22, 2017

Contacts lost...need her help..

I was having this Samsung cellphone having not many features...you can telephone to any number receive calls,hear FM music etc .

Last year when I went to USA my son in law got me a Motorola X Smartphone... With more features. .It serves as a handy computer.... Plus phone... Mainly I get it connected through Wi Fi  Modem connected to landline for internet purposes I am able to use Facebook read newspapers,see grandchildren  children, etc through Skype ...watch stock exchange movements through Rediff, Economic Times,,read blogs,write blogs,etc I am also able to use the messenger for sending messages and receive SMS ,etc .but I donot use it for seeing videos, U Tubes, etc The complaint from my wife is that I donot do any productive work instead am always busy with the smartphone...She even objects my using it as a camera or use WhatsApp through it.  See the plight......Of course when she wants auto or taxi, she asks me to use Ola App and Amazon App  for buying some book,etc through the phone. .

My old phone Samsung I gave  her for use  She  does not  know how to charge it from mains or get credit by paying Vodafone dealer She has some hundred numbers saved in it as contacts..mostly her relatives and none of them ever call her or my number.but she calls all of them regularly for broadcasting all news Even that I have saved in the phone. She does not know even the telephone number of the cellphone... I have saved it as My number in the phone... She is not much familiar with cellphone or computer operations...despite my teaching her so many things orally......

She goes out to Mylapore, T Nagar,Adyar etc and I give the phone to her I have taught her how to receive calls After she goes out,I telephone say after one hour to find out where she is..and to tell her I am making coffee with decoction  she has kept  saved or for eating any fruits available till she returns. she responds..and thus the phone is useful between us for communication and sanction or approval...But she will never telephone to my number and inform me where she is...When some call comes in my phone she takes it does not swipe or click answer properly and the line gets disconnected.What can I do?

So this is how the cellphone is useful between us..

But recently it has become necessary for me to contact her for knowing telephone numbers of my contacts .During my recent visit to USA while I was spending time with my phone...was seeing apps, options and settings and while pressing some button all contacts disappeared.Otherwise  I could get the dialled numbers,calls received,and other numbers of contacts stored in phone.In the past once I had pressed some wrong button changed language and set it for operation by blind persons.At that time I got it fixed paying Rs 650 to the phone repairing guy.This time when I went to him with the problem he said some software is gone and would replace it on paying Rs.850.This time I told my wife the repair cost for approval which she refused saying no need to have contacts with you which is a recurring unproductive cost.Instead you contact me through my number and I have all contacts stored.She has more of her friends and relatives contacts in her new Microsoft phone than those of mine.Also now she can filter and allow me only required calls to be made  stipulating time limit  .Incidentally my memory is so poor I donot remember telephone numbers of my contacts... Atlast, I am compelled to remember her phone number lest I cannot contact any others...The numbers available in my phonethrough WhatsApp contacts  are not many and thus her help has become necessary ..

That is the position....

Saturday, January 21, 2017

Marriage of Chi Vipin with Sow Rajalekshmi

Marriage of the eldest  greatgrandson in the family...Vipin Mohan...With Rajalakshmi.

Marriage history in our family

Marriages.  ..
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Mangalyam tantunanena mama jeevana hetuna: kanthe badhnami subhage twam jeeva sarada satam ||

Tying the thali or the mangalsutra around the bride's neck by the groom is one of the most important rituals of a hindu wedding.

While the groom ties three knots, the pundit chants this sloka which means; “This is a sacred thread. This is essential for my long life. I tie this around your neck O maiden having many auspicious attributes. May you live happily for a hundred years (with me).”

History......of marriages in our family...
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Anantha Narayanan ...Rajalekshmy....1951...Trichur

Parvathi....Parameshwaran.Trichur ..1953

Bagavathi....Raman.... Bangalore....1967

Lakshmi...Krishnan. .Madras....1971

Balasubramaniam...Kalyani. .Cannanore...1957
Sobhana...Dinakar....  Madras...1974

Syamala.  Lakshmanan...Madras..1972

Narayanan...Indira. Trichur..1977

Sundaram ..Radhai...Madras...1974

Karthik..
Roopa... Calicut ...2009

Sudha...Mohi..
Bangalore....2000

Sreedhar. . Sharadha....Madras...1995

Rajesh... Shwetha.....Madras.  2006

Chitra...Sreekanth....Madras...2010

Mohan... Latha. .Palghat....1986

Sasi .. Venkat ...Bangalore....1992

Susi. .. Gopalakrishnan...Bangalore...1979

Vimali... Ravi...Bangalore....1982

Anuradha....spouse...Madras..2008

Velu... Vidhya...Trivandrum....2000

Kutta...Meenakshi... Bangalore..2001

Dinesh .Viji..Bangalore..2006

Priya...Vadivelu ...Madras...1996

Sujatha....Sreeram..Madras....1999
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Sujatha...Prasad...Madras...1995
.......

Gopu... Vidhya... Coimbatore...1990

Raju... Lakshmi.....1987
Madras.....

Me and wife have attended all marriages..except..that of Kutta...and Lakshmi..

  We attended  marriage of Ram and Gunjan at Michigan on 4th sept

We attended our marriage on 4th Sept,1974 at Chennai...
Vijayaraghavan...
Bribdha Lakshmi..
Madras.....

On 19th January 2017...Marriage of Vipin with Rajalakshmi at Brahmana Samooham, Gayathri Kalyanamandapam, Edapalli, Ernakulam.. Kerala..

It was planned our attending Vipin's marriage while we were in USA upto 1.1.2017.During the engagement held at Palghat during last week of  June,2016 it was orally agreed we would attend the marriage in Jan 2017   ..
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Marriage is an event cum occasion when members of the large extended family came together,mingle and exchange our  thoughts on many matters, participate,and feel immersed in various events like mappalai azhappu,Kasi yathrai,Oonjal,vratham,muhurtham,reception,kattichadham,etc
.On 18th we participated in
Nischidam and reception in evening both at Edapalli. On 19th Jan we had marriage muhurtham by 8 AM...then aasirvadham,etc ..

We had delicious food including payasam,paapdam,sweets,etc throughout ...although it would have given a mild increase of blood sugar of a few non sweet people .

We two...Me and wife Brindha stayed at Aishwarya Hotel,Off MG Road, Ernakulam 16th to 18th ...forenoon taking good food at hotels nearby like Arya Bhavan, Bharat Tiffin,etc It was a privileged or fortune we could visit temples ... Chottanikkara,Thrippunithira, Kaladi,Ernakulathappan, Valanjambalam temple. and  also visit our Bangalore days acquaintance Shantha wife of late L S Balan.
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The grandsons who are married till now are...
Sridhar
Mohan
Rajesh
Ram,
Raju,
Gopu,
Kutta,
Velu
Dinesh,
and Vipin being great grandson

Next generation members whose marriages due are

Easwar,
Vikram, Shashank,
Vishnu,
Vishal,
Abhinav,
Keshav,
Shashank.

Granddaughters,great granddaughters ...Details not mentioned in this post.

It was most enjoyable we had accommodation provided at IMA..Kallur and nice transport arrangements shuttling between Edapalli and Kallur and finally upto Palghat in 19th

The married couple reached home by 6 PM .

As elderly person narrated my married life for 43 years..

I told..Vipin...She will be wrong  and correct always and we have to adjust ,co.exist and lead a happy and peaceful married life. I advised her chanting Slokas daily and learn music,dance,etc.

I took leave of the young couple by night train on 19 th night  conveying all our blessings to them.Along with cloths of Brindha ,packet of Murukku,thengizhal
,Parupputhengai,coconut,etc accompanied me home.

That was a nice marriage ..

Today We wish the reception at Palghat all the best..She will be present and represent me...

I reached home Chennai on 20 th 4 PM amidst bundh and protests at Chennai..With all shops closed etc..

Wish you all the best Vipin and Rajalakshmi...

Raghavan Thatha and Brindha Paatti....

Friday, January 20, 2017

I couldnot meet her again ...Lakshmi...

It was 2 PM... 7 th June,2016..
I had to go out for getting printout of our boarding passes etc.  I went and spoke to my fruit vendor Lakshmi about my voyage abroad She inquired how long I will stay there and later conveyed good wishes for happy stay abroad and return.
I felt happy seeing her. ..and realized I would miss her for some months ..
I returned after us trip this month.While going to buy fruits in the market used to search her..Unable to see thought she was probably ill...and.would come back soon...
Today on 20th.Jan while going to  the market searched her ,couldn't see her ...bought rasthali fruits from woman resembling Lakshmi.With much mental hesitation I asked her ...Lakshmi Amma engey...She told Lakshmi Amma erandhu poyitta ..Naalu masam munnadi..(.In English .  I asked her where is Lakshmi...She replied ...Lakshmi left us all four months back) .I felt shocked and felt I could have  seen her had I returned from USA earlier.
I ascertained she passed away due to wheezing trouble...and the girl who gave me fruits now was related to her. ..oragathi.magal..
(In English. .
Co sister's daughter I think )
Now I can see Lakshmi in her .
My condolences to her family members who do not know me.
Felt my elder sister was also one  Lakshmi who stayed with us for a few years.
That is life. 
I remember LAKSHMI...