Among many errors or mistakes we make in life I narrate a few briefly....
I must have been 6 or seven years old. I was studying in 2nd class in Vivekodayam Boys High School,Trichur My parents although not wealthy used to see children boy or girl wears golden ear stud always. I too was wearing may be just 1 sovereign. In the drill class or somewhere I remembered later someone unscrewed and took away my studs. In the house on their asking told them what happened...The mistakes are of parents sending children with golden ornaments and the carelessness of children or call them ...asadu in Tamil they say samarthyam illai...
I was stationed at Bombay for two years working in Inspection and Audit Department of the Bank. I used to visit Chennai once in 3 months where wife and family lived and stay with them for 3 to 4 days adjusting leave,Holiday S,etc.
I was travelling from Mumbai to Chennai in 1998...in II tier compartment...with my box full of Bombay articles for family,children,etc ...golden wristwatch,gold chain,purse with tickets,money etc. sleeping on the berth during night . .I had kept the box unchained to the seat in the side adjacent to door under RAC seats and kept my purse in pant pockets .After the train crossing Pune early morning I found my box,wristwatch,chain,tickets,money,etc missing. I tried to lodge a complaint at the nearest station but no use There was no result in my filing complaints at Central Railway Station ..Police.,Chennai on my reaching Chennai. Here the mistakes were mine.... not tying box to seat,sleeping without attention of mind
They used to identify and recognize my nature in my house..and say...Raghavana eeasiya emattalam..means you can cheat Raghavan easily I got encouragement....It added to my talents...Ofcourse my elder sisters Lakshmi and Bhagavathi along with my mother used to be innocent or paavum and I used to tell them all matters untrue yet believed by them ..
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The latest incident was last week my giving the ATM card PIN no to someone over telephone ..who cheated me around Rs 12557.....Mistake mine...never give Password or PIN to anyone...Also donot post or give your cellphone numbers in public network etc.Also donot believe unknown persons....
In 2007 I was returning home in a bus from Puraswalkam Chennai to Mandevalli with my hand bag and purse in pant pocket containing Bank Card,Driving licence,money etc and near Kilpauk. Bus Stop when bus stopped I saw fellows getting down in crowd.. One of them had picked my pocket taken purse,cash perhaps thrown out Driving licence,PAN card,Bank Card,..I reached home My daughter Chitra contacted banks got the balances in the account relating to card lost or stolen to some other account,got the lost card hotlisted,etc. It took quite sometime to get new PAN,Driving licence etc..Mistake.. Mine .. should be vigilant in bus travel, never carry original Licence, PAN,etc unless needed.
Ofcourse ladies should avoid wearing gold chains and go alone in secluded places My wife used to go to nearby Bhuvaneswari temple in Coimbatore in the morning and evening 2001 or 2002. One evening while she was about to reach the temple near our house walking, two persons riding a TVS 50 moped came near her,stopped the vehicle,snatched a costly gold chain she was wearing and sped away The two thirumangalyams and some balls attached to the chain fell on the ground which she collected and held safe and brought home She was injured in the neck...although she shouted for help ,nobody from nearby houses came forward ..She came home crying and there was no favourable result after approaching the nearest police station and making a complaint ..Here the...Mistake ..... My wife's. ..she should not wear gold chain easily visible to others... .should close all parts, ornaments worn,,etc suitably in public places .
We should be careful anywhere in public.We learn by experience and by losing money....Women should take more care and precautions and men should obey them . .
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